c/botany-lovers

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kim.wren•2d ago

I finally stopped killing my peace lily after 2 years of trial and error

Used to water it every Tuesday on a set schedule like my grandma taught me. Then last spring it started turning yellow and drooping no matter what I did. A guy at the local nursery told me to stick my finger in the soil and only water when the top inch is dry. Has anyone else had a plant bounce back after changing how often they water?

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jakewhite•3d ago

Hot take: Not every brown spot on a leaf means you need to water it more

I see this all the time in houseplant groups and it drives me nuts. Someone posts a pic of a few brown tips and ten people immediately say 'needs more water.' Last month my snake plant got brown edges and I actually checked the roots first. Turned out I was overwatering and the roots were starting to rot. Took me cutting back to once every three weeks to fix it. Has anyone else noticed people jumping to watering advice way too fast?

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ruby_grant•3d ago

PSA: That week I nearly killed my whole garden with compost tea

Last April I got way too excited about making aerated compost tea for my raised beds. Brewed up 5 gallons with molasses and let it sit for 36 hours instead of the normal 24. Ended up spraying everything including my prize tomatoes and by day 3 the plants had this slimy brown rot on the leaves. Lost about 80% of my lettuce patch and had to rip out all the infected leaves on my zucchini. Has anyone else messed up their garden by over-fermenting compost tea?

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tessa_roberts1•3d ago

Stuck between ordering seeds online or hitting the local nursery today

I spent like 2 hours this morning trying to decide if I should order my native wildflower seeds from a big online place or just drive over to Green Thumb Nursery across town. Ended up going local cause I wanted to see the plants in person and ask the old guy there some questions. Big mistake honestly. Their selection was half dead and the dude just shrugged when I asked about soil for milkweed. Paid $45 for a bag of mix that turned out to be full of weed seeds too. Now I'm staring at my garden bed wondering if I should rip it all out and order online anyway. Anyone else have worse luck with local stores than online?

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tessa_roberts1•5d ago

That time a retired gardener told me to stop being so tidy with my plants

I was at the community garden off Lincoln Avenue last spring, pulling out every little weed I saw near my tomato starts, when this older guy named Frank leaned over the fence. He just said 'You're gonna stress those plants out more than any weed will, kid.' He pointed to a clump of clover I was about to yank and told me it was actually fixing nitrogen for the soil. I stood there for a minute, mad at first, but then I realized I'd been treating my garden like a lawn instead of a living system. He talked for maybe 10 minutes about how messiness in a garden means more bugs and more life, and I started seeing all the little things I was killing just trying to make it look neat. Now I leave a patch of wild weeds along the back fence and my peppers have never been happier. Has anyone else had to unlearn that whole 'perfect garden' mindset?

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coleman.jade•6d ago

My greenhouse drip system flooded the floor 3 times before I noticed the problem

Last Tuesday I set up a new drip irrigation for my orchids in the greenhouse. I left it running overnight and came back to a puddle across the whole floor. Turns out one of the cheap emitters I got from a hardware store had a crack in the plastic that only showed up under pressure. I swapped all 12 emitters for higher quality ones and used a pressure regulator at the faucet. Anybody else had a sneaky leak from those bargain parts?

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hugo50•6d ago

Found out the oldest living plant is over 80,000 years old

I was reading a random article about botany last Tuesday and stumbled on a fact about a seagrass colony in the Mediterranean. This one patch of Posidonia oceanica has been cloning itself for around 80,000 years. I had no idea a single plant could survive that long, like longer than modern humans have been around. The article said it covers 9 miles of seafloor near Formentera, Spain. It made me rethink how we define what a plant even is, since it's all the same organism connected underground. Has anyone else run into a plant age fact that sounded fake at first?

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ray_webb6•7d ago

Overwatered my Venus flytrap for 3 months straight

I kept my little plant on the kitchen windowsill in Portland and gave it a cup of tap water every morning like clockwork. Found it all black and mushy last Tuesday when I went to water it again. Anyone else kill a carnivorous plant before figuring out they need distilled water?

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susanh46•9d ago

Wasted 2 years overwatering my peace lily until a yellow leaf told me the truth

I had this peace lily for about 2 years and it always looked sad with droopy leaves. I thought it needed more water, so I was giving it a cup every single day like clockwork. Then one leaf turned yellow and I googled it, turns out I was basically DROWNING the poor thing. My neighbor who grows orchids told me she only waters hers every 10 days or so and I felt like an idiot. Now I check the soil with my finger before watering and the plant finally perked up after 3 weeks. Has anyone else killed a houseplant with kindness like this?

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hall.ruby•13d ago

I used to think buying rare specimen plants was the only way to have a cool collection

Three years ago I spent $85 on a tiny Monstera albo cutting and watched it rot in two weeks. Meanwhile my neighbor gave me a cutting of her basic pothos that's now trailing 6 feet across my living room. I changed my mindset after I saw how resilient common plants can be when you just let them do their thing. Still love the rare stuff but now I trade cuttings with friends instead of dropping cash on Instagram sellers. Anyone else find more joy in the everyday plants they grew from a single leaf?

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nelson.finley•29d ago

Just got back from the Desert Botanical Garden in Phoenix and I am tired of people saying cacti are boring

Stood under a 30 foot saguaro that was probably older than my grandpa and saw more flowers and wildlife in one hour than I have in a year of looking at leafy plants back home - why do we sleep on desert botany?

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cameron724•1mo ago

Went to the public gardens downtown today, something felt off about the labels

So I finally made it to the Magnolia Gardens near the river yesterday, and I was kind of excited to check out their native plant section they've been bragging about. But honestly, half the signs had the wrong common names on them or were missing completely. There was a big patch of what looked like swamp milkweed with a label that just said 'Milkweed' and nothing else, no scientific name or bloom time or anything. I spent like 20 minutes trying to match the leaves to my plant ID app because I couldn't trust the signs. Ngl it bugs me when public spaces put in all this effort to grow stuff but then half-ass the education part. Has anyone else run into bad labeling at a botanical garden near you?

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coleman.jade•1mo ago

Pro tip: Stop watering your succulents every week like they're tomatoes

I killed 4 succulents in 6 months before I figured this out. My neighbor who runs a nursery finally told me flat out - most people drown their succulents. They need water like once every 2-3 weeks depending on your climate. I'm in Phoenix so even less. The leaves will wrinkle and get soft when they're actually thirsty. I check with a wooden skewer stuck in the dirt now. Has anyone else been overwatering forever without realizing it?

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noahs82•1mo ago

Just read that a single mature oak can host over 500 different insect species

Saw that stat in a UK wildlife trust article last night and it blew my mind. Makes me think twice before I get annoyed at caterpillars munching on my trees - has anyone else noticed a huge difference in bird activity around oaks vs other trees?

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cameron_chen63•1mo ago

Found a weird mushroom growing out of my fiddle leaf fig pot last week

I was watering my fiddle leaf fig last Tuesday and spotted this bright orange mushroom poking out of the soil. Turns out it's called a flowerpot parasol and it's totally harmless, but has anyone else had random fungi pop up in their houseplants?

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loganhart•1mo ago

Had a brutal week with a dying fiddle leaf fig in my living room

Lost 3 big leaves in 4 days and I panicked thinking it was root rot, but turns out it was just shocked from me moving it near a drafty window in December. Anyone else had a plant freak out over nothing?

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mason283•1mo ago

A master gardener told me I was pruning my roses all wrong, had to unlearn 5 years of bad habits

I went to a workshop at the Chicago Botanic Garden last spring, and during a Q&A I mentioned I always cut my roses at a 45 degree angle facing inward. The instructor just shook her head and said, 'You're cutting off your best growth, try cutting to an outward-facing bud about a quarter inch above it.' I was stubborn at first (I'd been doing it my way since 2018), but I tried it on three bushes and the difference in airflow and blooms was night and day. Now I have to stop myself every time I grab the pruners. Has anyone else gotten a simple tip that completely wrecked their old routine?

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sandra715•1mo ago

Caught myself overwatering my pothos for 6 months until a leaf turned yellow

I kept watering my pothos every 3 days because the soil felt dry on top, but the bottom was still soaking wet. A friend who runs a plant shop told me to stick my finger all the way down to the drainage hole before watering. Has anyone else had to unlearn that basic plant care rule the hard way?

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the_kelly•1mo ago

Wasted $50 on a fancy soil pH meter that was completely useless

Bought one of those digital pH meters off Amazon for like $50 thinking it would help me dial in my blueberry bushes. Followed the instructions to calibrate it and everything. First few readings seemed fine then I tested the same spot 3 times and got pH 5.2, then 7.1, then 4.8. Absolute garbage. Tried different soil types, still jumping all over. Ended up just using test strips for $8 and they work perfect. Anyone else had bad luck with those digital meters?

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matthew_owens9•1mo ago

Realized I was overwatering my snake plant for 8 months straight

I noticed the leaves turning yellow and squishy, and a friend who works at a nursery pointed out the roots were basically soup. Now I only water it when the soil's bone dry, and it's finally perking up. Anyone else kill plants by being too nice to them?

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margaret_bennett3•1mo ago

Hot take: I spent years overwatering my succulents and killing them slowly

I had three jade plants die on me in a row over about 2 years. Then last spring I noticed my newest one's leaves were turning yellow and mushy again. A guy at the local nursery in Austin pointed out the soil was staying wet for a full week after I watered. He told me to wait until the leaves look a little wrinkly before giving it a drink. Has anyone else had to unlearn their watering habits from what they thought was right?

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fiona_scott44•1mo ago

Appreciation post: My sickly peace lily finally perked up

I had this peace lily in my living room that was looking super droopy for like 3 weeks straight even though I watered it regularly. Turns out it was rootbound in a tiny plastic pot I forgot about and once I moved it to a bigger pot with fresh soil it bounced back in 2 days. Anyone else have a plant that looked dead but just needed more room to grow?

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claire_ramirez22•1mo ago

Best week I ever had was last spring when 12 of my rare orchids bloomed on the same Tuesday.

I woke up to find the whole greenhouse smelled like vanilla and citrus, and every single flower opened up perfect with no pests or rot, so has anyone else had a magic moment like that where everything just lines up right?

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piper_green•1mo ago

Hot take on picking leaves off sick plants at the garden center

Was at Lowe's in Phoenix last Tuesday, saw this lady picking yellow leaves off a calathea and putting it back on the shelf. I told her that doesn't fix the root rot, it just makes it look okay for the next buyer. She got defensive, said she was helping the plant. She bought three of them anyway. Anyone else dealt with people disguising plant problems before buying?

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wendy674•1mo ago

Wasted $50 on a fancy potting mix that killed my succulents

I bought this expensive bag of 'cactus and succulent' soil from a garden center in Austin last month, and it held way too much moisture. Within two weeks, three of my echeverias had root rot and basically turned to mush. Has anyone else had a bad experience with pre-made succulent mixes?