So how long do you really think you'll be in that house? I got a slightly higher rate with no points on my place because I knew we'd move for my wife's job in like 5 years. My cousin went for the super low rate but paid a ton in points, and then his job moved him after 3 years. He basically lost money. You gotta run the math on the total cost for your own plan.
Wait no, your friend is way off. The rate is super important, but all those fees get rolled into your total cost too. I mean, a low rate with huge upfront points isn't always the better deal.
@avery_hart63 makes a good point, but from what I've seen, locking in a low rate is often better than worrying about fees. It's all about how long you keep the loan. Many people end up paying more over time with a slightly higher rate.