Update: Our book club used to debate if Elizabeth Bennet was too proud. Now we talk about the economic pressures she faced. | Book Club Debates - HW Forums
Totally agree that missing Austen's point about character happens all the time. Like when someone says a breakup was only about cash. But really, it's often about pride or hurt feelings. You see this at jobs too, blaming pay instead of rude managers. Making everything about money skips the real human stuff. Austen saw that, and we still do it now.
Look at how Elizabeth's pride blinds her to Darcy's true character. Austen shows that personal feelings often matter more than money in relationships. That's why reducing her novels to economics misses the whole picture.